In repair

One thing that all of these "Heartbreak blogs" seem to have in common is the fact that we're ambivalent as hell. One post we will be crying our hearts out, the next we're filled with hope and renewed energy.
I guess it's a fair reflection of the process.
It;s never calm, we're never completely OK. It can be months and suddenly that feeling will prick you and you will bleed a little.
I guess what I want to say is have patience with us. We know we will be fine in the end. WE KNOW. We will be OK, we will love, we will laugh, we will forget. Once the wound has healed and we can wake up and go a whole day without thinking about it we will be fine.
Until then just have patience. Pull up a chair, pour a glass of wine. Talk. We would be there for you so please just put up with us for a little while longer.